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Total Destiny

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Belief in total destiny is oppression against ones free will as this belief states that everything is governed by God and Man has no Role in it due to lack of choice and freedom of will, that Man is not a free agent and is a helpless tool in divine hands like a toy.



An absolute belief in Destiny is Absurd as it makes life aimless and Vain. if Destiny is true then there is no merit or demerit in any mans action, and if everything is destined the very concept of Divine Justice becomes Null and Void as God himself destines and then punishes or rewards based on his chosen Destiny.

Divine Justice itself demands no compulsion and any action for reward or punishment has to be of a free agent, done out of own free will and choice.

Therefore Man is created by God but is a free agent and has complete free will and choice and can choose whatever he wants to do in Life.

Masks of Identity

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unaware we wear many masks or roles in life that define us intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually. These masks become our identity. 



The masks that are most difficult to detach from are of being a parent, son, daughter, employee, boss, student. Such masks tend to limit our potential and growth when we fail to grow out of them long after their roles are over.

Offering Help with Kindness and Respect

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The very act of offering help to someone creates a temporary loss of power, status, self esteem and independence for the person receiving help and gain in power, status for the person offering help, leading to a power imbalance in the relationship.

its utmost important that when we help someone we practice good etiquette, establish a connection first by appreciating and acknowledging the person seeking help for their courage and show your humbleness. always seek the consent to offer help even when asked to help, create a safe space, engage with care, kindness, empathy and compassion. and most importantly always help with an intention of being in service to the other with gratitude.

Self Realisation and the Egoistic Self.

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On the sufi/irfan path of self Realisation, the seeker is never safe from the egoistic self which wants to preserve itself and its needs and desires. During the first stage of conquering nafs-e-ammara(the commanding self) there is a intense struggle against the egoistic worldly desires and the seeker finds some success with self control and self discipline. 



The ego then eases this journey and helps the seeker see some more success in terms of good behavior and more self control. This is a essentially a trap by the ego. And as the seeker prematurely proceeds towards the second stage of conquering the nafs-e-lawama(the blaming self). 

The ego self  waits here with another trap and injects hypocrisy, arrogance and anger into the mind of the seeker against the teacher/master: “It says You are now as good as your master; not only do you know as much as he does, the way you behave is better. If he were able to apply what he teaches in his own lives he wouldn’t be half of what you are. 

You do…

Union and Seperation

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In Union there is fear of Annihilation.
In Separation there is hope of Union
The Sufi is not concerned with either
He only seeks the Beloved.

Trusting the Unknowing

The difficulty of understanding anything arises because we are uncomfortable with the unknown. Many of us have identities built around our “knowingness” There is a great contentment in the beingness of knowing that you’ll know what you need to know when you need to know it and the wisdom that there are things that can just be felt and not known ever. Trusting the unknowing

Divine Love

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For those who love Him,
He alone is their joy and sorrow,
He alone is their recompense and reward.
If anyone other than the Beloved is seen,
Then that is not love, it is mere passion.
Love is that flame which, when it blazes up, 
Consumes all but the Beloved Himself.


union with the divine

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The human soul was in the vicinity of Divine presence, but later got separated. The soul now laments due to the pain of separation and is greatly eager for reunion; it is always moved by the desire of returning to its origin irrespective of the path or ambition it chooses. 




This attraction is due to the force of love (Ishq) which is only means to achieve union with the Divine.

Our Nurturing Presence

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When we are centered in the consciousness of our nurturing presence, we are able to accept everything about ourselves and other people and embrace them in our wholeness and in their essence, as creative, resourceful, and capable of wholeness.



By embracing ourselves and other people in wholeness, we create the conditions within which we and they can change, heal or mature.

Egoistic False Self

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The egoistic false self is the result of existential angst which is unable to trust in life. The false self sees through distortion of what it perceives and induces bias against seeing the perfection of what reality actually is.
This is basically a problem of perception and awareness, because the false self is unable to perceive the meaningfulness of life events and is unaware of the divine mercy operating in every detail of existence.
Masters of the various traditions have witnessed this reality and tried to communicate sometimes through metaphysical principles and sometimes through mystical poetry. Through the work of the path, the self becomes aware of its qualities and meanings that it had not been aware of. The spiritual path work is a methodology based on the principles and insights of educating the human heart so it realizes the true nature of it's own self as an inherent part of and living in a creative, abundant, meaningful and beneficent reality.

healing through Wholesomeness

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Wholesomeness is a state of presence in which one is being consciously aware and compassionately loving in the present moment with the self, another person or others, believing in and affirming their potential for their wholesomeness, whoever they are and wherever they are in life.

Healing through wholesomeness presence is a natural force from within that gives purpose, meaning and wholeness to life. It is not a process that can be done to another person but comes from that person uniquely because of their own potential of innate wholeness.

Fear Courage and a Drawing

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Tried my hands on drawing and noticed that it was my fear of the thought that the drawing will be judged that had stopped me from trying it earlier.

Once I was open to the outcomes and didn't think about what others will say, the drawing came naturally.

I also realised it's not the absence of skill or technique that stops me from trying things  but the presence of fear and judgement.

This is is also applicable to many other areas of life, like for example learning to communicate has less to do with the method or technique and more to do with dealing with the fear of not being understood by others.



learning to speak publicly has less to do with content, body language and more to do with dealing with the anxiety of performance, being judged and passing out unconcious on stage.

what stops us from learning to drive a car has less to do with the method or technique and more to do with  the fear of injury and causing accidents.

in life it's mostly fear that stops us from trying…

My Personal Bill of Rights

My Personal Bill of Rights

I have numerous choice in my life beyond mere survival.

I have a right to discover and know my Child Within.

I have a right to grieve over what I didn’t get that I needed or what I got that I didn't need or want.

I have a right to follow my own values and standards.

I have a right to recognize and accept my own value system as appropriate.

I have a right to say no to anything when I feel I am not ready, it is unsafe or violates my values.

I have a right to dignity and respect.

I have a right to make decisions.

I have a right to determine and honor my own priorities.

I have the right to have my needs and wants respected by others.

I have the right to terminate conversations with people who make me feel put down and humiliated.

I have the right not to be responsible for others’ behavior, actions, feelings or problems.

I have a right to make mistakes and not have to be perfect.

I have a right to expect honesty from others.

I have a right to keep things con…